Thursday, November 1, 2012

Keeping the house clean... What a CHORE!

I have made many an attempt to keep our house clean... this has proven difficult because I am not usually an organized person, I am just learning to be. This means that I have to retrain myself and my children. Here are my latest attempts to do so with a houes full of six children under the age of 18, and one, soon to be two adults...

Below you will see the chart that hangs on our fridge this week. It's a format I made up and each week I reprint another one with different dates and people for each job.
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Shared Responsibilities (switched every 2 weeks): 10-25 to 11-8
Jesse *Washing Dishes – Daily, Keep sink empty of dirty dishes, be available for after meal cleanup
Savannah *Sweeping Downstairs Carpet – Th, Sat, *Use Windex or natural spray to clean downstairs bathroom sink and toilet – Fridays
Aaron*Sweeping Upstairs Carpet – Th, Sat, *Use Windex or natural spray to clean upstairs bathroom sink and toilet – Fridays
Travis *Sweeping/Mopping Kitchen/Bathrooms – Th, Sat, *Clean Showers – Fri
Jaidyn  *Take out trash bags to big brown can, and help Nathan keep all floors clean.
Nathan *Keep all toys off of downstairs floors and in toy boxes
*Older 4 kids, do your own laundry – you are responsible for having clean clothing.
Everyone:
*Throw away all of your trash
*Rinse the dishes you eat on, and put in the sink as soon as you are done eating
*Do NOT eat anywhere other than the kitchen or the dining room table… these rules are to keep our house free of bugs and mice! And the carpets clean.
*Keep your rooms clean: i.e., nothing on the floor, beds made every morning, and everything in its place.

Warning:
The shirking* of these responsibilities will result in the loss of privileges: meaning time with friends, computer, TV, and anything else any of your parents think is necessary.

               REWARD
However, being responsible and doing your daily work without reminder, will reward you with more freedom, more privileges, and your $$ Allowance $$.
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Today I am hoping to inspire my kids further through a couple of different methods. I hope to imprint their memory with the importance of this issue through doing an activity together, and to remind them of the kinds of issues you have when you do not clean through the content of said activity. The chore chart above and the $2/week allowance has done more than all of the nagging I have done in my life to keep us on track. I am hungry for a new level of clean, and hope to inspire the kids towards it as well. I just googled "make your own crossword puzzle", came up with http://puzzlemaker.discoveryeducation.com/CrissCrossSetupForm.asp , and had fun making this reminder!
Keeping the House Clean


Across
2. showers collect this every day
4. Mom washed the what this morning?
5. Keeping a house clean is a what on dirt?
6. Cleaning is
8. People didn't pick up their candy
11. Do you want to ? in the grimy shower?
12. Everything naturally turns to this
13. Let's keep our house
14. if this is everywhere, so are mites
Down
1. ALL what? need swept EVERY DAY
3. Mom picked up tons of ? stuff
7. Mom also did this
8. Will you get some this ?
9. toilets collect waste daily
10. is what Mom should have been doing
11. Do you want to sit on a ? toilet?
13. is what you get for doing a good job


17 of 19 words were placed into the puzzle.
Created by Puzzlemaker at DiscoveryEducation.com
Discovery Education




Tuesday, April 3, 2012

5 Basic Human Needs for Emotional Health

Certainty, Variety, Significance, Love/Connection, Growth, and Contribution.

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Trying my hand

Adrienne, Rich in experience
lends light to
Eve, at the beginning of herself
old bonds still attached, pulling
the sharp pain of that last little
stubborn cord detaching
New life, so raw
the shock of it, bright, unrelenting
I'm still wet behind the ears
still longing for the warmth of the womb,
yet reveling in the freedom to stretch my
mind,
to set my own boundaries
Vision yet blurry, tippy toes pointing
I blink, I breathe, I wonder?.......

Dedicated to Adrienne Rich, much loved poet, introduced to me on this day of her death, March 29, 2012

Truth

"Truth is relevant to the speaker, and no one person's truth can be made to be another's" - Eve Latchouli

Friday, March 16, 2012

My Vision for Life 3/16/2012

I travel talking to people about education, birth, and parenting reformation. When I am not traveling, I am writing, I am taking time for me, I am relaxing, I am gardening, I am spending quality time with my partner.

I am a published author on a variety of themes. My first book is being published in 2013.

My kids learn wherever, however, and whenever it suits them.

We all pursue our passions daily. I feel content with my daily life.

I don't worry about money!

I feel like I am doing good things for the world.

I have a lover who is my best friend and we live together! We take time for each other and support one another. We have a wonderful relationship in every way. She travels with me for work when she wants to.

My partner and I are wonderful co-parents to our kids along with James and his partner.

My children entertain themselves with learning things that will propel them off in their individual interests and will support them financially. The kids feel well supported and know that they are loved and cared for physically and emotionally by many people.

They often come on trips with me and my partner for work, and with their dad to his work. They learn from real life. From their own research.

Life is a wonderful patchwork of lessons and love and happiness and apprecation.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

I've Come a Lonnnngggg Way, Baby.

It's with hesitation that I post this, as although it has been years since I have functioned as a dependent person, it is still somewhat embarassing to put it out there. but for others who maybe suffering from this personality disorder, I will. It has taken me years to move past these issues begun in my childhood, but I feel that I am entering the end stages....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPZN-5N_LQ8&feature=fvwp&NR=1

I've come a lonnggggg way, baby.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Here I Grow Again!

I think I like that as a title of a new blog... not sure why I want to start a new one... maybe because this one is all cluttered up with un-posted posts that are more private than to be put out in the public eye..
Anyway, whether I do it anytime soon or not, I'll keep it in mind every time I see this particular post.

I felt the statement bubble up as my fb status after reading this: http://www.sustainablebabysteps.com/about-us.html

I've been thinking unschooly thoughts lately about my kids and about my life. I enjoy the fact that I am making more money right now than I ever have... but I don't want my life to be about making money.
I want my life and my kids lives to be about following our passions. Some of my passions include: Helping my kids develop and live their life plans and education, self educated or "formally" educated, helping babies live a more comfortable life, helping moms have more comfortable, healthier, less anxious pregnancies, births, and lives with their kids, writing, living healthy, becoming more fit, eating well and deliciously, staying active, reading, learning, relaxing and most of all loving....
This website opened up another portal of possibility for all of these things.....

<3 LIFE